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However, one particularity of the human species is that pair bonds are often formed without necessarily having the intention of reproduction.
In modern times, emphasis on the institution of marriage, generally described as a male-female bond, has obscured pair bonds formed by same-sex and transsexual couples, and that many heterosexual couples also bond for life without offspring, or that often pairs that do have offspring separate.
I had total control, and he was lying on his stomach, so he wasn't making eye contact with me. If your partner has never had anal sex/hasn't done it for a while, go slow, it might hurt a little. Read up, practice with fingers first, and be willing to give it a shot!
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